Classical friction laws traditionally assume that the friction between solid pairs remains constant with a given normal load. However, our study has unveiled a remarkable deviation from conventional wisdom. In this paper, we discovered that altering the loading mode of micro graphite flakes led to significant changes in the lateral friction under identical normal loads. By adding a cap onto a single graphite flake to disperse the normal load applied by an atomic force microscope (AFM) tip, we were able to distribute the concentrated force. Astonishingly, our results demonstrated a notable 4–7 times increase in friction as a consequence of load dispersion. Finite element analysis (FEA) further confirmed that the increase in compressive stress at the edges of the graphite flake, resulting from load dispersion, led to a significant increase in friction. This study underscores the critical role of the loading mode in microscale friction dynamics, challenging the prevailing notion that friction remains static with a given normal force. Importantly, our research sheds light on the potential for achieving macroscale structural superlubricity (SSL) by assembling microscale SSL graphite flakes by using a larger cap.